A free family story guide

40 questions
worth asking now.

Ask for scenes, not summaries. These prompts are designed to open doors to the stories Grandma, Grandpa, Nana or Papa may never think to tell without being asked.

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HOW TO USE THIS

Choose three questions, not forty. Put your phone away unless they agree to a recording. Follow the unexpected detail—and let the conversation wander.

01

The world they grew up in

  1. What did home look and sound like when you were little?
  2. Who made you feel safest as a child—and how?
  3. What did your family do for fun when money was tight?
  4. Which rule did you secretly love to break?
  5. What smell takes you straight back to childhood?
  6. What was always on the table at dinner?
  7. Which holiday felt most magical?
  8. What did adults misunderstand about you?
  9. Who was your first best friend?
  10. What ordinary day would you happily live again?
02

Love, work and becoming themselves

  1. When did you first feel truly grown up?
  2. What was your first job really like?
  3. What did you spend your first paycheck on?
  4. How did you know you were in love?
  5. Which decision changed the direction of your life?
  6. What did you learn the hard way?
  7. Who believed in you before you believed in yourself?
  8. What fashion choice do you still defend?
  9. When were you bravest?
  10. What dream did you quietly carry for years?
03

The family only they remember

  1. Which relative could always make everyone laugh?
  2. What recipe tastes like your family?
  3. What saying did your parents repeat?
  4. Which family story has been told a hundred times?
  5. What tradition should we never stop?
  6. Who hosted the best gatherings—and why?
  7. What object in your home has the best story?
  8. What was a typical Sunday like?
  9. Which family resemblance makes you smile?
  10. What do you wish you had asked your own grandparents?
04

The little things worth keeping

  1. What song still makes you move?
  2. What simple pleasure never gets old?
  3. How do you cheer yourself up?
  4. What are you most proud of that no award could measure?
  5. Which room have you loved most?
  6. What do people get wrong about getting older?
  7. What kindness have you never forgotten?
  8. What always makes a house feel like home?
  9. What do you hope our family remembers about you?
  10. What would you like to tell someone reading this fifty years from now?

When the conversation is over

Turn the answers into
a story your family can keep.

You bring the memories. We shape the writing and art-direct the finished digital book.

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